Is it really that important?
With time it becomes exhausting to care about things that are not very important. As we get older we have less energy to spend on seeking approval or getting things that we mistakenly believe we need....
View ArticleThe bliss of being
The more we experience the bliss of being, the more all other things become progressively lacklustre. We become bored with what had formerly excited us. People, places and objects that thrilled us and...
View ArticleWhy do I need you to agree with me?
If I need you to agree with me, it is because I believe that my safety is contingent on your approval. It’s a hangover from childhood, and maturity requires that we let this view go. Depending on any...
View ArticleIf I am stressed, I am the source of that stress
We make ourselves stressed. This stress comes from our beliefs. If we have stressful beliefs, we will find that we become stressed. If there is a task we believe we need to complete, for instance,...
View ArticleDeath by obligations
So much of our energy and life is consumed by what we think we have to do, and who we think we have to be. The ideal varies from person to person. It’s often easiest to blame the people around us:...
View ArticleBetter Reading and Spiritual Practices
If you want something better to read than this blog I can suggest at least two books that are infinitely more helpful. The concepts in both these books overlap: their point is to let go of illusions....
View ArticleLet go or be dragged, said the monk.
A woman in my building had much of her extensive Vuitton collection cast down the garbage shoot by a jilted lover. As each piece disappeared she worried. He told her she must be losing it. I guess she...
View ArticleI’m only sleeping
“As a person constantly surrenders, physical and psychosomatic disorders improve and frequently disappear altogether.” – Dr David Hawkins, Letting Go. When I was a little girl I had very vivid dreams...
View ArticleThe decade of letting it go
That Frozen movie last year (number five box office earning film of all time) had that song Let It Go. This year we have Ryan Adams singing Let Go. Even Taylor Swift is a Blank Space Shaking It Off....
View ArticleHow I use astrology to steer my life with soul
Three years ago I wrote a post called: Why I Prefer Astrology To Therapy I learnt to read charts growing up from my father. I thought that astrology was just a fun hobby, like any other personality...
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